Amelia Delgado’s early exposure to explicit content mirrors Ore Oduba’s 30-year struggle with pornography addiction. Oduba, a former CBBC presenter who separated from his wife in 2024, admitted to starting his habit at the age of nine, keeping it hidden from family members.
Recent research by the Children’s Commissioner has shown a concerning trend, with 70% of participants reporting viewing pornography before turning 18, up from 64% in 2023. A quarter of those surveyed had encountered such material by the age of 11, often unintentionally through social media.
For Amelia, a 21-year-old actress from South Woodford, East London, her first exposure to pornography happened at the age of eight while innocently searching for a movie online. This initial encounter led to a daily habit of watching explicit content, including what she describes as “hardcore” material.
As she delved deeper into this world, Amelia found herself imitating the behaviors she saw, believing that sex was about performance rather than intimacy. This distorted view of intimacy took a toll on her body image and self-esteem, especially after being introduced to pornography by a boyfriend at 13.
The impact of early exposure to pornography became evident when Amelia found herself pregnant at the age of 15, a situation that caused distress to her family. Ultimately, she made the decision to terminate the pregnancy, a choice supported by her loved ones.
However, Amelia’s story took a positive turn when she met Connor, a 23-year-old children’s sports coach, in 2022. Their relationship has been transformative for her, allowing her to rediscover a healthy and fulfilling approach to intimacy.
Reflecting on her past experiences, Amelia acknowledges the damaging effects of pornography on her perception of sex and relationships. She emphasizes the importance of open conversations and education to protect children from similar struggles, advocating for more awareness and support for young individuals navigating the complexities of sexual content online.
By sharing her journey, Amelia hopes to empower other women to speak up about their experiences with pornography, challenging the stigma and promoting a more inclusive dialogue on this sensitive topic.